Can Christmas Shows Show the Way?

December 13, 2007

Can turning on the TV turn into a holy activity?  Can watching the exploits of Charlie Brown and Rudolph help adults and children alike to “Prepare the Way of the Lord”?  Absolutely, in some pretty surprising ways.

I have never outgrown my childhood addiction to Christmas specials, even the ones that turn up year after year, time and time again. Some Christians decry the popularity of such “secular” stories, claiming they distract from the primary faith story of Christmas. I even worried, a bit, about my own fairly serious attachment to the Grinch until one day, many years ago, I read a marvelous article by Catholic theologian John Shea which put my worries to rest for good. Shea points out that the response of every culture throughout the ages to the wondrous story of Christ’s birth has been to tell other stories that break open its meaning.  Our best secular tales are not meant to compete but to complement – to make alive for us in ever-new ways all the unfathomed lessons embedded within Christmas.

Consider the Grinch, suggests Shea.  Advent is about conversion — the change of heart — which occurs when at last we open our eyes wide enough to recognize God in our midst. When the sound of Whoville singing reaches his ears and the Grinch realizes that Christmas has come despite all of his efforts to steal it away, his eyes open large, his shriveled heart grows ten sizes, and real conversion happens.  His choices, and his understanding of the world, will never be the same again.

Consider further, says Shea, the real message being proclaimed when the Peanuts gang finally embrace the efforts of the outcast, Charlie Brown, and gather around an unloved and unwanted tree to proclaim the Christmas message.  Or when Rudolph, the Rejected Reindeer, becomes a light in the darkness — the one who shows the way as nobody else can. 

These are the profound truths of our Christmas faith:  A child born in a stable is acclaimed Savior of the world.  That which is weak, vulnerable, and rejected in ourselves — and in our world — has the power to improve our vision, deepen our compassion, enlarge our hearts and save us, if we let it.  While it certainly won’t be my only Advent activity, I plan to sit down with my family in front of the TV quite a few times in the weeks ahead and Prepare the Way of the Lord by listening and watching well.    

(Note: A more recent book by John Shea, titled Starlight: Beholding the Christmas Miracle All Year Long, was revised this past year.)


Night of Silence – Light Breaks into Darkness this Advent

December 10, 2007

The Christmas season has many wonderful, traditional songs.  Yet, every now and then, there is a new song that touches the heart deeply.  My favorite ”new” Christmas song is Night of Silence, available in David Haas’ Christmas/Advent CD, Star Child

Written by Daniel Kantor, the song was inspired ”by the northwoods of Wisconsin and the sparkle of freshly fallen snow in the moonlight of a sub-zero winter’s night.”  The song is often sung in Catholic parishes during Advent.  It flows beautifully into Silent Night, with one verse from each song overlapping.

Night of Silence is truly an Advent song.  What makes it so special is that it movingly describes the almost overwhelming darkness that exists before the dawn.  In this case, the song describes the darkness in life just before Christ’s light breaks into our world on Christmas morning.  Often Christmas songs focus on the birth of Jesus and what happens afterwards.  But Night of Silence is dedicated to reminding us what it was like just before the dawn, just before Christmas morning.     

Few of us have lived life without experiencing moments of such terrible darkness when one truly doubts if dawn will ever come.  Whether it be the death of a loved one, a chronic illness or injury, the loss of a job, or the shattering of a dream, only hope – a hope borne of faith – can carry us through this darkness into the light. As Kantor’s first verse describes, “Cold are the people, Winter of life, We tremble in shadows this cold endless night, Frozen in the snow lie roses sleeping, Flowers that will echo the sunrise, Fire of hope is our only warmth, Weary, its flame will be dying soon.”

And so it is with Advent, a season that reminds us that despite the shortening days, despite the pervasive cold, despite the enveloping snow that blankets everything around us, dawn will come.  Light will break into the blackness of hearts.  Depite the darkness in our lives, the pain or sorrow, the longings or fears, “soon will we know of the morning.”  


Online Advent Calendar for Spiritual Seekers in Their 20′s and 30′s

December 6, 2007

Are you in your 20′s or 30′s, or do you know individuals in that age range?  Then check out Busted Halo, a Catholic website sponsored by the Paulists.  During Advent, the website offers a daily reflection for spiritual seekers.

The website speaks in the language of young people today, which makes it very inviting for many.  It seeks readers who are spiritually hungry and “trying to desperately find deeper meaning in their lives.”  Grounded in the Catholic tradition, the website helps readers connect their lives with their faith.

Don’t expect boring or timid writings on this site.  Busted Halo succeeds in its claim to provide a forum that is “open, informed, unexpected, unpredictable, balanced, and thought-provoking.” Busted Halo tells it like it is, and helps the reader uncover how God is right there, in the midst of everything.


Christian Hope – Letter from Pope Benedict XVI

December 3, 2007

Advent is a time, not just of waiting, but rather of hope-filled waiting.  And so it is fitting that Pope Benedict XVI just released an encyclical letter titled “In Hope We Are Saved” (Spe Salvi facti Sumus) on November 30, 2007.  The letter is also available in Spanish, French, German, ItalianPolish, Portuguese, and Latin.

The introduction is quite intriguing because it claims that salvation “is not simply a given.”  Rather, it is “on the basis of …[Christian] hope… [that] we are redeemed.” It’s not often that you hear theological statements emphasizing the link between salvation and hope.   The Pope goes on to explain this connection in the 27 page letter.  

Key to understanding the Pope’s statement is the realization that he is speaking of a faith-filled hope.  The Pope offers many quotes from the Bible and from theologians across the ages.  He also cites many examples from history which have influenced our understanding of salvation and hope.

In a section on “The transformation of Christian faith — hope in the modern age,” the Pope brings the discussion to the present.  He argues that Jesus’ message is not meant to be understood narrowly, only for individuals.  But rather that the message also has a communal dimension.  We have a “responsibility for the whole.” Hope must encompass both the individual and the larger community.  It is not just one or the other. 

As he explains, “Since I cannot be happy without others or in opposition to them, it remains true that a hope that does not concern me personally is not a real hope.”  But this hope alone is not enough.  We must also have hope for others and for our world.Put another way, “We need the greater and lesser hopes that keep us going day by day.  But these are not enough without the great hope, which must surpass everything else.” And this great hope is a gift to us from God.

The letter also gives some ideas on how we can learn to better accept this gift of hope from God.  These include prayer, action and suffering as a way to learn hope, and judgment (an idea which the Pope notes has faded in importance in modern times.)  Mary is also seen as a model for hoping in the midst of life’s journey.

As we begin our Advent journey, we walk in hope.


Cyber-Monday and Advent: Preparing for Christmas

November 26, 2007

Advent is still days away, yet the secular world has already rushed us into preparing for Christmas.  Thanksgiving was just a blur this year as retail stores switched from fall decorations to Christmas ornaments right after Halloween.  Black Friday was slightly better for retailers than expected.  And now today is Cyber-Monday, the day when many of us hit the internet to do our Christmas shopping.  And so we prepare for Christmas. 

It wasn’t too long ago that preparing for Christmas meant something different for Catholics.  Advent wreaths, pink and purple candles, Advent calendars, nativity scenes — all of these were traditional parts of our preparations.  It’s interesting that the secular world has jumped on a religious event and expanded it.  In the midst of the hustle and bustle, it’s difficult to lose sight of what we are preparing for at this time of year.

Christmas is a time when light breaks into darkness.  And so we live in darkness, waiting for the light.  We anticipate and yearn and pray that once again God will break into our lives and make us new.   

Let’s keep that in mind as we tackle Cyber-Monday and the rest of the shopping season.  Perhaps set up a little Nativity Scene in your office or at home to be a constant reminder of the true meaning of Christmas.  Take some time to pray each day, if only for a minute or two during these busy times.  Rethink your shopping list by giving books and other gifts that invite your friends and family to see how God breaks into the darkness of their lives each and every day anew.


Thanksgiving and Service – Helping Our Children Experience God in Acts of Service

November 21, 2007

Thanksgiving is a wonderful time to step back and look at the many blessings in our lives as we give thanks.  It is also a wonderful time to think about how we, too, can be a blessing in the lives of others.  Fostering this approach of being a blessing for others is a way to help our children connect faith and service.  Helping to serve a meal at a homeless shelter on Thanksgiving Day, or making handmade cards and delivering them to shut-ins can have a profound effect on children.  Discussions beforehand and afterwards can help children reflect on their experience and on how God is involved.

An excellent article with many concrete examples is How to Raise Kids Who Care – Teach Your Children Well, and Chances Are They’ll Make Service A Way of Life.  Knowing that there are people who live differently than them can have a huge impact on kids.  As the author, Christina Zaker notes in one example, “Even complaints about having to share a bedroom disappeared after one family visited a family shelter and saw how entire families lived in a single bedroom.” Books on how to foster an attitude of giving can also be found in ActiveParishioner.com’s Parenting/Families section.

When I was growing up I remember that every Christmas my Mom would wrap small packages of candy for children who were poor.  I would help her and then we would drop them off at our parish for them to distribute.  This was many years before the concept of “giving trees” with name tags became popular.  As a young child I wasn’t that motivated to help because I couldn’t understand who would want candy as a Christmas gift, when it was readily available at home.  I had a hard time grasping what it meant that there were children my age living in poverty.  But the example of my parents giving to others in so many ways somehow touched something deep within me.  This approach to life is now something that I very much want to pass on to our son. 

In this busy holiday season as Halloween, Thanksgiving, Advent and Christmas all get bunched up and seem to turn into non-stop motion, let’s pause and reflect on our blessings as we give thanks.  Take a moment to talk with your kids about how each member of your family is so blessed.  Then reflect together on how all of you as a family can also bring blessings to the lives of others. 

From the staff of ActiveParishioner.com, may you and your loved ones have a blessed Thanksgiving!


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