Catholic Parish Small Group Discussion Guides

August 29, 2008

Sometimes our Catholic parishes are so large that we long for a small faith-sharing group within the larger community.  If you are a parish minister or a parishioner who would like to start such a group, then the Life after Sunday website can provide some great discussion guides.

The site offers 26 discussion topics, each with an 8-page guide which can be used by a small group.  Topics are simple in title, but filled with a deep richness that helps us to unfold God’s presence in our lives.  Sample topics include Destiny, Fulfillment, Future, Assent, Risk, and Wonder.

In addition, there are small group packages around special interest groups such as new mothers and new Catholics.

The fall is a great time to start new initiatives within a parish.  Why not browse these discussion guides and start a small discussion group in your parish?


Being a Catholic Dad

August 27, 2008

Resources for parenting can be found everywhere. But often, they really are designed for Moms, not Dads.  Even subtle language can make Fathers feel that close parenting isn’t an area where they should tread. The Knights of Columbus have launched a website, Fathers for Good, to correct this image by assuring Catholic Dads that not only should they be active parents, but that it is vital that they do so.

The site offers many stories, articles, ideas, videos and podcasts to help Catholic Dads connect with their children. Readers are even invited to help select future monthly topics.

One article shows how fathers are essential.  As the author explains, “There is no time in a child’s life that doesn’t count. Research has shown that even infants know and respond to their fathers differently than they do to their mothers. The bond you make with a baby sets the foundation for a lifetime.” A relationship with both parents is so helpful for children at every age. 

I can only look back to my own experience as a parent to see how true this is, even for a newborn. My husband and I were both fortunate to take significant time off work after the birth of our child. Then we took turns parenting during the day as we both eased back into the workworld part-time on opposite schedules. Our child was, and still is, equally comfortable and happy being with either of us. I contrast this with other experiences and stories I have heard, where Dads are told to stay out of the way during those first few months. Unfortunately, this then becomes a pattern and the bond between father and child is not as strong as it can be. Fortunately, we know that the bonds can be made deeper, but the father has to take the initiative. And the Fathers for Good website helps Dads do just that.


Working Together in Catholic Schools – The Vatican’s Viewpoint

August 25, 2008

This morning the traffic announcers on the radio reminded drivers to be cautious about young children walking down the street since the school season has begun. The start of a new school year can be very exciting for students attending Catholic school, whether their teachers are lay or religious. Things are no longer as they were 50 years ago when Catholic school students were almost exclusively taught by religious sisters, brothers and priests. Today it is more common to have students almost exclusively taught by lay teachers. If the teachers are good, does it really matter if they are lay or religious? The Vatican says it definitely matters. In fact, the Vatican goes a step further by claiming that it is very important for students to be taught by both lay and religious teachers in Catholic schools.

Last September, the Vatican’s Congregation for Catholic Education issued a statement, “Educating Together in Catholic Schools” which has now been translated into English. In the statement, the Vatican focuses on the importance of Catholic education in helping with the full formation of students.  It is “especially urgent to offer young people a course of scholastic formation which is not reduced to a simple individualistic and instrumental fruition of service with a view to obtaining a qualification. As well as gaining knowledge, students must also have a strong experience of sharing with their educators.”

The Vatican goes a step further in emphasizing the importance of having both lay persons and religious collaborating together in the school system. The statement highlights ”three fundamental aspects of cooperation between lay faithful and consecrated persons in the Catholic school: 1) Communion in the educational mission, 2) Necessary course of formation for communion…, [and] 3) Openness towards others as the fruit of that communion.” The statement gives many suggestions for improving and building upon each of these areas.

Catholic school students have much to gain from having lay teachers and from having religious teachers. As the Vatican statement recommends, it is very important for lay teachers and religious teachers to work together as they take on the responsibility of educating and forming the next generation of students.


Catholic Homilies, African-Style

August 21, 2008

I recently stumbled across a homily resource site, “Light A Candle – Munachi’s Homepage of African Christian Inspiration.”  The website offers a story-filled homily for each Sunday of the year. 

When you first reach this website, you are greeted by delightful and appropriate cartoon. You can sign up to receive the weekly homilies by email.  An archive includes a listing of past homilies.

What makes this site unique for US visitors is that the perspective is African.  The site is run by a Catholic priest, Ernest Munachi Ezeogu, CSSp, a member of the Holy Ghost Missionary Congregation living in Nigeria. His sense of humor is apparent in his writings.

If you’d like to look at Sunday’s readings through another cultural lens, visit this site for a refreshing glance.



Catholic Preaching Conference in September

August 14, 2008

Whether you are a priest or a parishioner, if preaching is important to you, then you should browse the website for the Catholic Coalition on Preaching’s convocation scheduled in Louisville on September 24-27, 2008. The theme for the conference is New Evangelization: Spirituality of the Preacher and the Hearer.

Held every two years, this event seeks to promote and energize the quality of preaching in the United States. The coalition itself consists of many Catholic organizations including schools of theology, seminaries, Catholic professional associations, organizations of religious priests, and liturgical organizations.

The line-up of speakers is excellent. The structure of the conference will be highly interactive, with keynotes, focused dialogue, panel presentations, discussions with preachers and homiletics professors, and breakout sessions.

Often one will hear Catholics complain about the quality of preaching in their parish. Yet, one must ask how much we Catholics have invested in training our priests in homiletics. As one older priest (but not that old!) told a group recently, when he was in the seminary, there wasn’t a single class on preaching. Fortunately seminary training has improved in recent times. 

In all fairness, parish budgets are so tight and there are so many demands on priests’ times these days that many would not even consider trying to carve out the funds and time to attend a preaching workshop. 

This is where “active parishioners” can help. If you would like to help your pastor or associate pastor with his preaching skills, consider giving him the gift of sending him to this conference. Gather with fellow parishioners and raise the funds to cover this “investment” in your parish. It’s bound to be an excellent conference. And in the long run, both priests and parishioners will benefit.


Catholics to Stop Saying/Singing the Name Yahweh

August 13, 2008

In an interesting development, the Vatican’s Congregation for Divine Worship and the Discipline of the Sacraments issued a directive to all bishops’ conferences on June 29, 2008, stating that Catholics are to no longer say the name Yahweh. The US Bishops’ Committee for Divine Worship, which is the responsible committee for liturgical issues in the US, forwarded the directive to all dioceses on August 8. It is expected that it will take some time to implement the change.

To those who have been a fan of the song, “Yahweh, I Know You Are Near,” such a change is surprising, if not disappointing. I’ve been on many retreats and participated in many Masses where this song has captured the hearts of the people and helped us to pray more deeply. Ironically, last Sunday while on travel we sang this song at Mass in a small town. Now, the song needs to be changed to replace the name Yahweh.

What is behind this new directive? Why are we to no longer pronounce the name Yahweh in a liturgical setting, whether in song or spoken prayer? A bit of history is helpful here. The name Yahweh was the ancient Hebrew name for God and was originally spelled YHWH. Thus, it had four consonants and no vowels, rendering it unable to be pronounced.

As the letter from the Vatican explains, “As an expression of the infinite greatness and majesty of God, it was held to be unpronounceable and hence was replaced during the reading of sacred Scripture by means of the use of an alternate name: ‘Adonai,’ which means ‘Lord.’” In other words, another name was always substituted for YHWH when God’s name was spoken out loud in liturgy. Thus, the directive bring us back to the ancient tradition where the name YHWH was not spoken out loud, emphasizing respect for God in a profound, meaningful way.

Since this blog helps to connect faith and daily life, it is only appropriate to explore if there are any other present-day venues where someone’s name is not to be spoken out loud. One example that comes to mind is in the Harry Potter books. In this narrative, the villain Lord Voldemort, has a name which is never spoken by anyone except for Harry Potter and a few others. When others refer to Voldemort, they say, “He-Who-Must-Not-Be-Named.” As the storyline goes, the villain is so evil and so terrible, that out of fear people don’t use his name. This is a twisted form of respect for a powerful being.

Of course, in the Harry Potter example, the villain is as far from God as possible. The villain is pure evil as becomes obvious throughout the books. His great weakness is that he is incapable of love. But there is something interesting here. We believe that God is pure, unconditional love and goodness, totally holy. In the fictional account, a character who fully embodies a trait (evil) has people refraining from using his name out loud. Is it so far-fetched, then, for us to choose to refrain from speaking the proper name for God, who fully embodies a much more important trait (love and goodness) out of respect? 

Maybe what the Vatican is trying to do is to retrieve the dimension of God as totally Other, as Mystery. Certainly, in the present day, the pendulum has swung in the direction of God being seen as totally familiar and intimately involved in our lives. Personally, I like this. But perhaps we have lost something by ignoring the other end of the spectrum which emphasizes God as “mysterium tremendum et fascinans” as Rudolf Otto coined in his profound book, The Idea of the Holy: An Inquiry into the Non Rational Factor in the Idea of the Divine.

How do we hold onto our closeness to and intimacy with God, while also balancing God’s Other-Worldly dimension? A current day book helps us to do exactly this. What Is God?: How to Think about the Divine, written by John Haught, a theologian and professor at Georgetown University tackles this brilliantly. He proposes several images for thinking about God — as Depth, as Future, as Freedom, as Beauty, and as Truth. All of these lead to the image of God as Mystery. 

This wonderful little book is well worth reading. For Haught, mystery does not mean a gap in knowledge. As Haught describes, Mystery “denotes a region of reality that, instead of growing smaller as we grow wiser and more powerful, can actually be experienced as growing larger and more incomprehensible as we solve more of our scientific and other problems. It is a region of the ’known unknown,’ the horizon that keeps expanding and receding into the distance the more our knowledge advances. It is the arena of the incomprehensible and unspeakable that makes us aware of our ignorance, of how much there yet remains to be known.”   

I want to know more about this God of ours who is as a horizon which expands as we approach. But, honestly, I know I will miss singing the song, “Yahweh, I Know You Are Near.”


Catholic Conference Welcomes Persons with Disabilities

August 8, 2008

In less than a month, one of my favorite organizations will be hosting its biennial conference.  The National Apostolate for Inclusion Ministry (NAfIM) will be meeting in Huron, OH on September 4-6, 2008.  The theme of the conference is “Winds of Change, Spirit of Inclusion.”

NAfIM is a Catholic membership organization of parish ministers, diocesan leaders, university professionals, parents and persons with mental retardation, intellectual disability and other developmental differences.  Anyone can join.  NAfIM’s vision is based on the realization that “the universal call to holiness leads us to recognize that the Body of Christ suffers when some members are not invited to full participation.” NAfIM “envisions that every person with intellectual/developmental disabilities will be welcome to full inclusion into our Catholic communities.” 

I had the opportunity to attend a NAfIM conference several years ago and found the experience to be both moving and enlightening.  Everyone who attends, regardless of intellectual or developmental ability, is fully welcome to participate in the workshops, the prayer services and all parts of the conference. 

The keynote address this year will be given by theologian Fr. Jim Bacik and is titled, “The Parish as a Welcoming Community: Fostering the Spirit of Inclusion.”  This gentle and insightful pastor is adept at helping Catholics understand and live life from a theologically grounded perspective.

General sessions include “Faith-based Care in a Bureaucratic World,” ”Gospel Drama How-to’s: Sharing the Good News and Your Gifts,” “Marriage Panel: I Didn’t Sign Up for This!” where four couples share their marriage challenges and faith journey while raising their children with developmental disabilities, and “Sibling Panel: Riding the Bus and Beyond with my Sib!” where adult brothers and sisters share their relationships with their siblings with intellectual/developmental disability. Many other workshops are also scheduled during the conference. As you can see from this sampling, the conference is a family event where many attendees come as a family.

Whether you are a parish minister, a religious educator, or a parent who’s family is touched by intellectual/developmental disability, you will find this organization and its members to be a lifeline filled with love, wisdom, joy, and a welcoming attitude that would make Jesus proud.


Connecting with other Catholics around the World

August 4, 2008

Every time a World Youth Day (WYD) occurs, the host country experiences many positive benefits as the effects of such a faith-filled gathering of this size touch many. It is not surprising then to see a new Catholic offering coming from Australia which just finished hosting WYD. This new opportunity is called FaithTrip and is an internet-based way for Catholics, especially younger Catholics, to connect with other faithfilled people across the world.

Signing up is free. Once you join, you can post your own profile. You can also add photos and a blog. (As with all social networking sites, caution is advised regarding how much information to reveal about yourself.) Members can then form or join a community, a group, or link to friends. Catholic music and videos are also available on the site.

For those of us who group up before the internet, this site can serve as a modern version of the old pen-pal system. You can form a group of like-minded people across the world, or you can use the site to form a local group. Although initial groups are heavily focused in Australia, this will change as the site grows with time.

Would you like to interact with worldwide Catholics in your own profession or with an interest in a specific hobby? Give this site a try and form a group. You may not get the beautiful stamps that you would with pen-pals, but your communication will proceed at a much faster speed.