Cyber-Monday and Advent: Preparing for Christmas

November 26, 2007

Advent is still days away, yet the secular world has already rushed us into preparing for Christmas.  Thanksgiving was just a blur this year as retail stores switched from fall decorations to Christmas ornaments right after Halloween.  Black Friday was slightly better for retailers than expected.  And now today is Cyber-Monday, the day when many of us hit the internet to do our Christmas shopping.  And so we prepare for Christmas. 

It wasn’t too long ago that preparing for Christmas meant something different for Catholics.  Advent wreaths, pink and purple candles, Advent calendars, nativity scenes — all of these were traditional parts of our preparations.  It’s interesting that the secular world has jumped on a religious event and expanded it.  In the midst of the hustle and bustle, it’s difficult to lose sight of what we are preparing for at this time of year.

Christmas is a time when light breaks into darkness.  And so we live in darkness, waiting for the light.  We anticipate and yearn and pray that once again God will break into our lives and make us new.   

Let’s keep that in mind as we tackle Cyber-Monday and the rest of the shopping season.  Perhaps set up a little Nativity Scene in your office or at home to be a constant reminder of the true meaning of Christmas.  Take some time to pray each day, if only for a minute or two during these busy times.  Rethink your shopping list by giving books and other gifts that invite your friends and family to see how God breaks into the darkness of their lives each and every day anew.


Thanksgiving and Service – Helping Our Children Experience God in Acts of Service

November 21, 2007

Thanksgiving is a wonderful time to step back and look at the many blessings in our lives as we give thanks.  It is also a wonderful time to think about how we, too, can be a blessing in the lives of others.  Fostering this approach of being a blessing for others is a way to help our children connect faith and service.  Helping to serve a meal at a homeless shelter on Thanksgiving Day, or making handmade cards and delivering them to shut-ins can have a profound effect on children.  Discussions beforehand and afterwards can help children reflect on their experience and on how God is involved.

An excellent article with many concrete examples is How to Raise Kids Who Care – Teach Your Children Well, and Chances Are They’ll Make Service A Way of Life.  Knowing that there are people who live differently than them can have a huge impact on kids.  As the author, Christina Zaker notes in one example, “Even complaints about having to share a bedroom disappeared after one family visited a family shelter and saw how entire families lived in a single bedroom.” Books on how to foster an attitude of giving can also be found in ActiveParishioner.com’s Parenting/Families section.

When I was growing up I remember that every Christmas my Mom would wrap small packages of candy for children who were poor.  I would help her and then we would drop them off at our parish for them to distribute.  This was many years before the concept of “giving trees” with name tags became popular.  As a young child I wasn’t that motivated to help because I couldn’t understand who would want candy as a Christmas gift, when it was readily available at home.  I had a hard time grasping what it meant that there were children my age living in poverty.  But the example of my parents giving to others in so many ways somehow touched something deep within me.  This approach to life is now something that I very much want to pass on to our son. 

In this busy holiday season as Halloween, Thanksgiving, Advent and Christmas all get bunched up and seem to turn into non-stop motion, let’s pause and reflect on our blessings as we give thanks.  Take a moment to talk with your kids about how each member of your family is so blessed.  Then reflect together on how all of you as a family can also bring blessings to the lives of others. 

From the staff of ActiveParishioner.com, may you and your loved ones have a blessed Thanksgiving!


Stewardship and Teenagers – New US Bishops’ Statement

November 19, 2007

Catholic parents want their children to grow up to be good people.  Nurturing this can occur in many ways.  One such way is encouraging stewardship among children and especially teenagers.  The US bishops recently published a helpful document titled, Stewardship and Teenagers – The Challenge of Being a Disciple.  

Addressed to teens, this brief statement provides the theological basis for acts of service by reminding teens that everything we have is a gift from God.  Even our own being is a gift from God.  We are surrounded by evidence of God’s love for us.  When we give to others, we should give from that wealth of love.

Many teenagers today are very interested in service opportunities.  But often the connection between faith and service is not made.  Using simple language, the bishops’ statement makes this connection clear. 

If you are a Catholic parent and are interested in additional resources to help you as you parent your child, visit ActiveParishioner.com’s Parenting Resources

 



US Bishops Gather Today for Annual Fall Meeting

November 12, 2007

Every November, the US Bishops gather for a business meeting.  At this meeting, they collaborate and work together to make decisions and recommendations related to activities of the Catholic Church across the country. 

This year’s meeting starts today, Monday, November 12 and will continue through Thursday, November 15.  The gathering, which is held in Baltimore, MD, is not open to the public, but the media covering the event will be issuing press releases and writing stories about each major decision.

Topics up for a vote include a brochure on stewardship for teenagers, two catechetical items, a statement on faith and politics, and the revision of guidelines for music at Mass.  In addition, the bishops will vote for new officers of the Bishops’ Conference, as well as new committe chairs.

The bishops will also receive the preliminary results of a research project seeking to identify the causes and context of the clergy sexual abuse crisis.

For more detailed information about the above agenda items, see the US Conference of Catholic Bishops (USCCB) Media page.  For daily news stories reporting on the results of the Bishops’ meeting, visit ActiveParishioner.com’s website and click on US Catholic News (under Latest News.) 


Ever Thought of Taking A Break to Do Volunteer Work?

November 7, 2007

CNVSHave you ever thought you might want to do volunteer work for a week? Or perhaps for a year or two? Not sure where to start?  Then check out the Catholic Network of Volunteer Service (CNVS).  They publish the RESPONSE Directory that describes volunteer programs offered by over 200 Catholic and Christian member organizations. 

The Directory can be searched online, or a hard copy can be ordered for free from CNVS by emailing cnvsinfo@cnvs.org or calling 1-800-543-5046. 

CNVS provides a bridge between individual volunteers and the sponsoring organizations.  CNVS helps to match individuals with faith-based volunteer opportunities and also provides training and technical assistance resources.  Volunteer and lay missionary opportunities exist within the US and also internationally in 108 countries.

Take a look at this great resource.  Volunteer work might be a great way to spend your next “vacation,” however long it may be.


New Catholic Website Connects Faith with Daily Life

November 5, 2007

Today, November 5, 2007, the full version of the Catholic website, www.ActiveParishioner.com was launched.  The site has been in beta testing since July 2007.  A copy of the press release can be obtained from PRWeb. The website, which includes this Blog — Catholic Resource Tidbits — also sells Catholic books and other resources that help people make sense of their lives from a faith perspective.  In addition, the site offers a wealth of Catholic information. Visitors can pray online, accessing daily Mass readings as well as daily meditations. They can read the latest Catholic news from the US and from overseas. They can find a comprehensive list of bishops’ conferences around the world, each with its own resources; view an up-to-date calendar of national Catholic conferences and gatherings; discover a detailed listing of all accredited Catholic academic institutions offering ministry or theology degrees through distance-learning; and find the names and links for all US bishops and dioceses, as well as current church statistics.